It's All In Your Head: 3 things all women should think about to make sex hotter

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You are in danger of losing your sex drive if you do not make time for regular sex. The mind has as much to do with sex as the body, so do not underestimate the power of naughty thinking.

If you are finding sex tedious, then it’s time to reprogramme your mind with these thoughts.

A friendly reminder

You can get in the mood by reminding yourself that you like sex. Instead of thinking about the million and one reasons why you don’t have time to get it on, take a few minutes to think about how a quality roll in the hay makes you feel. Whatever message you feed yourself is what your brain will respond to. So remind yourself that sex is fun, you look great, and your partner is into you.

READ: 6 things you should do more often as a couple

Think about the pleasure

You don’t need a campaign speech to make your case for steamier sex. A simple mantra will help your mind weed through outside distractions and focus on doing the dirty. Before sex, think, ‘This is my time for pleasure.’ And while you’re going at it, tell yourself to focus on your pleasure to push away negative thoughts that aren’t bringing you closer to orgasm. Bonus: Zoning in on a mantra also ensures that you’ll be tuned in to how good the sex is for you, and will help ease any anxiety about whether your partner is enjoying it.

READ: 5 things that happen to your body when you stop having sex

Picture this

Picture yourself completely blissed-out with a satisfied expression on your face and a relaxed body. Doing this before or during sex primes your brain to feel capable of amazing pleasure.

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